Coming out as a person is undoubtedly one of the most important moments in the life of any LGBTQIA+ person. But the truth is that this process has no set itinerary. It is a unique journey, full of challenges, but also of incredible discoveries about who you really are.
Take a Deep Breath Before Coming Out
First, take a deep breath. Before you tell the world, you need to tell yourself. Accepting yourself is the first and most important step. Don’t rush. It’s okay if it takes weeks, months, or even years to understand and accept who you are.
A practical tip? Talk to yourself. It may seem silly, but speaking out loud, writing in a journal, or even recording audios of yourself venting can help you organize your thoughts. Listen to yourself without judgment.
Find Friends Who Have Been Through This
Another important thing: look for stories from other people who have been through this. There are many videos, podcasts and books with real stories that can inspire you. When we see that we are not alone, the weight lifts a little, you know?
When you feel ready to tell someone, choose safe people. Friends who have already shown support for the LGBTQIA+ community, more open-minded family members, or even online groups. You don’t have to start with the most difficult ones.
You Have Your Own Time
And remember: the time is yours. No one has the right to rush your process. And if someone tries, you can respectfully say: “I’m still figuring this out for myself, and I prefer to go at my own pace.”
Finally, be kind to yourself. Being afraid is part of life, but your truth is worth living. You deserve love, respect, and happiness for being exactly who you are.
